I feel it. As a developer, I think the best I can do is to stand up for the user when I see dark patterns being developed. As friend and family member, I think the best I can do is to encourage people trying it offline/analog first. It almost never changes anything, but it shows you still give a shit.

I am running a niche SaaS with around 20 users per day on AWS.

I too was shocked when I saw the $1.7billion bill, instead of the usual $1.5billion.