And that's different from your parents setting you up to go off in life to do what you were trained to do how exactly?

Humans have agency and often choose to do what their parents didn't set them up for. Humans also have legal rights. They're not tools owned by corporations. This is an absurd comparison.

You've never had an agent do something you didn't want it to do? Also like I said you can give agents very open ended goals to basically do whatever.

You think this is an absurd comparison because your brain won't accept it. The Overton window has shifted. You need to catch up.